CAPA Corner: Pause and Breathe

    Pause and breathe.  As graduates walk across the stage—be it preschool, kindergarten, high school, or college—loved ones will gather to watch and savor this moment.  No doubt some loved ones will not be able to attend, but their support is felt through conversations, cards, and gifts.  As preparations are made for this occasion, what can we do?
    Pause and breathe. Time passes by so quickly, but there are certain moments where time slows down.  Graduation ceremonies are often those times.  Graduates arrive early and wait until they are allowed to walk into the room.  Supporters also often arrive early to get a parking spot and a great seat to view the activities.  As graduates and spectators arrive, what can we do?
    Pause and breathe.  Take time to offer a prayer of thanks to God for the crowd of witnesses who have supported and encouraged the graduate to reach this particular milestone.  Offer a prayer for educators and school staff who have passed on knowledge and positive life skills.  Offer a prayer for those who are graduating and beginning a new phase of life.  As the room empties of graduates and their families, what can we do?
    Pause and breathe.  Make a commitment to continue to support the graduates by being a role model, praying for them, and offering positive words of encouragement.  It is unlikely the graduates will not make some foolish mistakes along the way. When that happens, what can we do?
    Pause and breathe. And pray for wisdom, patience and understanding, so that love may overflow.
Rev. Robin McCullough-Bade
St. Augustine Episcopal Church